Dear edgesharp
I am sorry to see the FON support didn't match your expectations. I try to help as much as I can, so do the developers, customer support team and volunteers in the different channels for communication (email, IRC, forums, wiki and even twitter, lol). But we can't make always everybody happy.
As for the 802.11n being not mature... well. The driver we are using is developed directly by Ralink, the chip manufacturer. It has been certified by the WiFi alliance on other devices and is in fact, pretty mature. Unfortunately the double SSID is something that is not commonly used by many manufacturers and is not part of the WiFi alliance certification and looks like we ran into a bug here.
We are currently looking at it, with the direct support of Ralink and hope to have it fixed soon. If your conclusion is still that you are 'ALPHA testing' (wow, that's definitely worse than I expected to hear) a product, you better sell it on ebay as you say. I hope someone will buy it and be the happy owner of a fonera 2.0n, even happier when the bug is fixed

But I would really love to fix the problem soon enough so you can enjoy the fonera better than being disappointed with it. I am, besides the responsible of the product, a happy fonera 2.0n owner and user, since my laptop does not have these issues and I honestly recommend it.
Thanks for your comments!